The reason behind going bald by choice…I had an emotional deep, struggling, tough and also depressive last year. I felt change from the inside and going bald was one way of showing myself from the outside, that there is change! Leaving old things behind. Defining myself new and creating a strong, authentic, unique identity.
One initial thought was, that I don’t always have to look pretty and now I’m surprised by the beauty and strength I discover and experience being a bald woman and the tons of compliments I get. I would have never imagined that! Probably because I didn’t do it to look good. I just did it for myself, my own reasons. Cause I felt like doing it, cause I wanted it and in the end, I regret more the things I didn’t do than the things I did! And shaving my head was one of the best decisions in my life so far.
I feel like I’m back in my own energy. The feeling you have as a kid. When you don’t care about the norm, or how someone else might want you to be and act. You are just you. 100%. But as we get older, most of us forget about that. We might try to be ‘perfect’ in society. But I rather be unique, interesting, different and true to myself. I gained back a lot of strength, self confidence, power, freedom, happiness, beauty!
And a beautiful thing is, that I don’t compare myself anymore to these other beautiful blond girls, that might have a ‘better’ body, or thicker hair or whatever. Because I don’t see no one else out there like me. Everyone is unique, just not so many people show it.
Embracing the bald!
Peace, Love and Happiness!